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I read an article in Cleo last month. For many, they may not pay attention to such article but perhaps I have come across many friends who were or somehow related to the topic so I find it rather interesting. The title of the article is “When You Are The Other Woman”.

Love is blind, many woman use this as a reason to be a third party. Whether he is a married man or is involve in another relationship, somehow he still manage to capture the heart of other woman. I have a friend, Mary (not real name) who has been involved with a married man for years. To her, she gets the freedom of not being totally committed to a relationship and have more time to herself than having a full time boyfriend. All she needs was the money provided by the man and the companion she gets once in a while.

I have also had a friend who is the other woman. She suffers through pain and hurt but still remains being the other woman. When his wife called, she felt jealous. She could not totally own him but she could not let him go either. Is this worth it?

I think the rules of the game, if you ever want to be the other woman is to be ready to face all the consequences. You must be an easy going person. To let him be in someone else’s possession and to know where you stand.

No one is guilty in love. But, if everyone holds on to principal or morality in their life perhaps there won’t be any affair in marriage or betrayal in love. Can love is blind good enough to be a reason to cheat your partner?

Here, I share with you 3 types of affairs as written in Cleo magazine:

Type 1: The Adulterous Relationship

“Compensates for a defective partnership, in which there is a major lack but none serious enough to terminate the relationship”.- In other words, there is something the guy ain’t getting from his honey, which is why he wants you. It’s not always physical, though, so don’t make anyassumption that he is just being horny.

Type 2: The Discontinuous Relationship

“A person of either sex strays because he or she experiences a ‘discontinuous relationship’, in which one of the partners is away for a long time for some reason.”- In other words, his Girlfriend’s hardly ever around, and so he needs to get it off with someone else, i.e., you. Again, his motives might not be physical.

Type 3: The Polygamous Relationship

“The attached person does not accept a ‘monogamous commitment’ in his or her personal life, although he or she may feel committed to marriage or parenthood.” - In other words, he’s dedicated swinger and will expect nothing less than the same from you.

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